FROM MY INBOX: HELP ME, HOW DO I GET CHILDREN OF MY OWN WITHOUT GETTING MARRIED

Hiii Amanda
I’ve been following you for a while and really love it.

Kindly help me post this anonymously.

I am a divorcee due to domestic violence
No children for the 6years that I was married to that former horse and of mine due to series of beatings leading to miscarriages, including twins which was the last I had before I finally summoned up courage to file for a divorce which was granted at the court.

Getting married again????
So scary, cos I’ve still not gotten over the past experiences and wasted years.

I need a child/children of my own as I am medically fit.
Which out of this option would be better:

1. Adoption – giving this a thought but it’s quite expensive for my purse at the moment.

2. I have a close male friend who is more or less like a confidant (even though he’s married)
He wants to help out by making sperm donation for me to go through Artificial insemination (IUI)
I’m scared of going for a random donor sperm as i dnt know the origin, what if the sperm belongs to a thief or someone with bad character or hereditary health issues?

3. Having a boyfriend and just get pregnant, then we can go our separate ways
-but I’m so scared and can’t even think of maintaining relationship at d moment

Please, I need a non sentimental advice
Thanks

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